Dear Fear, We’re breaking Up!


Dear fear,

We. Are. Breaking. Up.

It’s not working out anymore… And let’s be clear.. It’s you not me.  You call me names like failure, fake, and screw up.  You keep me in the shadows  instead of walking in the light.  You send my head spinning instead of focusing on what’s true.

You. Waste. My. Time.

You. Kill. My. Joy.

You keep me in the negative “what ifs”

What if my husband gets in a car wreck?

What if my kids get hurt?

What if a bad guy breaks into my home?

What if people really know all the bad stuff I’ve done.

What if I’m making the wrong decision and this turns out badly?

What if I’m hearing you wrong?

What if I’m a really bad mom and My kids end up jacked up?

What if this makes me look stupid?

What if I feel like this forever?

So out you go in JESUS NAME! We are done!  Now GO! Walk out the door! You’re not welcome here anymore!

I’m replacing you with the love I have in Christ. Not only am I going to survive…I’m going to thrive!

I’m replacing you with positive what- ifs

What if God started an amazing thing in my marriage and my husband became this awesome man of God?

….. I’m going to pray for that!

What if my children knew the love of Christ and did amazing things for him at a young age?

………I’m going to start praying for that!

What if I screw up and my kids turn out fine anyway!

…..I’m going to pray for that!

What if I don’t look stupid and this actually turns into an awesome thing!!

What if my house turns into Holy Ground and the presence of God is so evident people want to know more about Jesus?

What if instead of feeling ashamed and guilty of past mistakes… I trade it in with grace, mercy, and power. And I step into my proper role in kingdom of heaven…

And what if God IS actually who He says is and He actually can fulfill ALL my needs and desires with glory. What if I start dreaming and praying again? What if start walking in freedom.

What if……?

…………I’m going to pray for that!

Hello love of Jesus.  I’m ready to believe you now.  I’ve broken up with fear and I’d like to couple up with your perfect love.  Help me to see myself through your eyes. Help me to feel safe and live openhanded with my life, gifts, and talents.

Help me to be authentic with my life and know you more deeply!

Help me to protect my heart and mind so I’m not tempted to slide back into fearful thoughts. Please reveal to me what else needs to go so that doesn’t happen.

Thank you  Jesus that your word is true.

Thank you that you are a God who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine according to your power that is at work with in us. Ephesians 3:20

Give us vision and help us imagine again!-Pray for MoreHope for MoreSeek you MoreLife a life for MoreLove Moree's no elevator to sucess. you have to take the stairs.-

Help us to

Pray for More

Hope for More

Seek you More

Live a life for More

And to You be glory of my New life not strapped down by fear anymore.

Thanks you Jesus. You are everything.


Dear Heavenly Father I speak freedom from fear over every eye who read this.  I pray that you have a moment with Jesus and your lavish love covers them in a way that cast out all fear.  I pray that they receive this love and it replaces the spots in their hearts where your love should reside. I speak they come to know the spirit of love, power, and sound mind that comes with walking through life closely with you.  I pray this over every reading in the name of Jesus.




9 thoughts on “Dear Fear, We’re breaking Up!

  1. Thank you for the post and the prayer! Amen! Fear is not from the Lord!
    2 Timothy 1:7
    2 Corinthians 5:7
    Psalm 145:18
    Proverbs 16:20
    1 John 4:16
    These are posted in my house and I read them when fear creeps in.

  2. I needed this more than you know! 🙌🏼🙌🏼🙌🏼 Thankful for a God that is bigger than my fears.

  3. Great word Lauren! I am adding this to the material to use for teaching freedom (deliverence)!. I envision a lighter look at rebuking fear will bring freedom in the method of delivery itself. Fighting the devil doesn’t have to be heavy – it just has to be done!

  4. Found you on the contest blog. I too have entered! I feel such a kindred spirit here, one I would love to have coffee with and hear your story. It’s so refreshing to read words that mirror my thoughts! Words that make me feel less alone in my struggle. I am thankful for the Fighting Fear book and the chance to connect with other fear fighters!

    1. Yes! Fear keeps people still and quiet! Since we are all created in His image, we all have something to share and tell the world about! Learning how to do think scared is life changing! God Bless and good luck!! I’ve never entered a contest!

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